There is nothing like sitting out on the patio on a hot day. My lemonade complemented the warm rays of the sun so perfectly. The hours pass like minutes and my stress seemed to wash away with every second. I enjoyed every sip of this delicious lemonade but before I knew it the lemonade was nearly gone! Oh man was I starting to get bummed… “My glass is half empty already!!”. How did this happen so fast?!?!? With this half a glass of lemonade staring directly at me I started to realize an apparent real life philosophical idiom. I started to ponder the age old question of whether the glass was half full or half empty.
Was I the half empty person?!?... The one that only notices what they don't have??? Or am I the half full person… content and appreciative of the amount I was given? I’ll tell you one thing, at that moment with half a glass of lemonade I was definitely thinking in terms of half empty! But I did not look at it from the traditional half empty standpoint. I didn't think “Oh man, I have the short end of this stick!” it was more like “there is so much room for more… I could double what I have... how much better would that be??!?!?”. So I started to plot and ploy to find a way to fill the rest but I was really comfortable and the sun felt so nice. There was no way I was going to get up for a refill. So I decided that I will have to convince myself to be content with what I have. So I did. I determined that I had a delectable half full glass of lemonade and I was content sipping it ever so slowly to get the most enjoyment.
As time passed I started to become accustom to the taste of the lemonade. My desire for the next sip became less and less. Something was missing. Then the moment struck! I want… no… I need some strawberries…. Mmmmmm strawberry lemonade would be great! So there I was, appreciative of my half full glass of lemonade but yearning for something a bit more, something that would make it
justttt a bit better.
Now out of a desire to continue to create the best lemonade I can, I started to realize that the half empty part of the glass is now the perfect place for the addition of strawberries. But these strawberries were not going to just magically emerge from the elements of the sun. I am going to have to leave my comfort zone and finish creating my plan to enhance my wonderful glass of lemonade. Despite the opposing opinion of my body to leave this comfort zone, I managed to get up and make my way to the kitchen to add the strawberries.
So good!… Totally worth the trek to the kitchen, especially once I made it back to my seat on the patio. Back in my comfort zone I had a mini epiphany. It was obvious that I don’t want to be the person that views the glass as half empty because I will always be feeling inadequate, but I cannot always view the glass as half full because I will become too content and will not create an atmosphere of growth. The way I want to approach life is by being content and appreciative of the fullness of the glass but also recognize the emptiness as room for growth. The fullness of the glass is the person I am today but the emptiness is the person I will soon be.